The Owl's Nest-The Nocturnal Imperative - Page 16 - Final Fantasy Net

Terminal Est · #**151** 02-15-2008, 05:13 AM

If someone is living in the past, there is nothing you can do. If it does not work, it is because they are not ready to face what ails them. They must do it themselves, it is not up to you to yank the worms out of her nose.

You can support her and go with her rhythm, I believe this is how you can help...by doing this, and as said already, you might show her new things...I cannot give advice, I can only tell you what not to do; no rushing.

Revenant · #**152** 02-15-2008, 08:33 AM

I think......I 'm not able to give the right advice on that. But I agree with Terminal Est about no rushing.

bond of flames 2.0 · #**153** 02-15-2008, 05:36 PM

thanks guys...i just wish it all works out in the long run

Terminal Est · #**154** 02-15-2008, 07:05 PM

I hope so too. it may take a while, depending on whatever is going on, and I do not think that you will see instant results...I believe that such things are gradual, really.

bond of flames 2.0 · #**155** 02-15-2008, 09:33 PM

great i hate being patient...i'm just sick of being sick from stress.

Terminal Est · #**156** 02-16-2008, 07:26 AM

Well...you cannot expect such matters to fix themselves overnight. :/

But that you are stressed about what is going with her, only goes to show that you care for her, and perhaps this shall help.

bond of flames 2.0 · #**157** 02-17-2008, 08:53 PM

yeah i know..and ur right...everythings fine now...hopefully.. We talked about it at our dance and stuff and on the phone and worked things out.. so i'm not pissed as much anymore and i dont have to worry about all the crap i was worrying about. But come april when her ex comes back from bootcamp and stuff thats when the problems could occur...so until then things shall be fine.

Zotar · #**158** 02-19-2008, 06:15 PM

Glad to here it.

Terminal Est · #**159** 02-22-2008, 07:16 PM

I've not slept nearly enough...had to rise early, in order to freeze my ass off outside to go waste most of my pay check on a 255 dollar electricity bill.

And the hotel wants me to switch to day shift. I feel a little stressed, and angry. They can rot in hell with their day time shift, I do not want that. I would rather be homeless.

Miss Lockheart · #**160** 02-22-2008, 07:49 PM

Hmmm down with dayshift, I was always quite comfortable working the night hours when I was on the Barnsley club circuit. Then when I got a job at a bank working during the day it bored me to tears ~_~